By Andrew Williams
“And after some days Paul said to Barnabas, “Let us return and visit the brothers in every city where we proclaimed the word of the Lord, and see how they are.” Now Barnabas wanted to take with them John called Mark. But Paul thought best not to take with them one who had withdrawn from them in Pamphylia and had not gone with them to the work. And there arose a sharp disagreement, so that they separated from each other. Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus…” – Acts 15:36-39 (ESV)
Good morning fellow disciples.
Acts 15:36-39 recounts a painful but significant turning point in Barnabas’ ministry. Despite their years of successful partnership, Paul and Barnabas experience a “sharp disagreement” over whether to bring John Mark on their next missionary journey. Barnabas, true to his nature as an encourager, believes in giving Mark a second chance, while Paul is hesitant due to Mark’s previous desertion. This disagreement leads to a parting of ways, with Barnabas taking Mark and sailing to Cyprus. This event highlights the complexities of relationships, the importance of grace, and the reality that even godly leaders can have disagreements.
As a disciple, you may experience disagreements, conflicts, or even separations within your relationships and your ministry. Barnabas’ example reminds you that it’s okay to have different perspectives and to prioritize different values. It’s not always possible to agree on everything, and sometimes, parting ways is the best course of action. However, even in the midst of disagreement, you can choose to act with grace, to honor the other person’s perspective, and to trust that God will use even difficult situations for His glory.
This week, reflect on any disagreements or conflicts you may be experiencing in your relationships. Seek to understand the other person’s perspective, and be willing to compromise where possible. If you reach a point where you cannot agree, strive to part ways with grace and respect, trusting that God will continue to work in both of your lives.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, help me to navigate disagreements and conflicts with grace, humility, and understanding. Give me the wisdom to know when to compromise and when to stand firm. Empower me to act with love and respect, even when I disagree with others., and trust that You will lead each of us to fulfill what You need of us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
